In this thing of ours, attending funerals is a common thing. We loose way too many people way too early, which is even though the risk we take, incredibly sad. Especially for the person that passes but also for the family.

Attending a funeral is your last chance to say goodby. I think the most important reason to visit a funeral is because the son or daughter of the deceased will be there. They will get comfort from you popping in and paying your respects.

So what do you say when you get there?

1. You can keep it simple and lay a rose on the casket whilst saying something along the lines of; “ May he rest in peace (RIP)” or a “God rest his soul (GRHS)”
2. You can tell a short story about a memory you have of de deceased, like when you guys met or if you’re sure there’s no feds about – talk about a successful heist.
3. Besides an Rest In Peace you could offer a nice sum of money to the next of kin, to help them flourish in life. At the end of the day 100K is nothing for a Made Man but everything for young little thug
4. You can refer to a song that shows your feelings, with Uncle YouTube, doing the vocals for you. Please don’t attempt singing yourself. A service should always be peaceful. Thank you.
5. You can shake the hands of the family and ask them if there’s anything you can do. Maybe this person was gunned down unwarranted, maybe you need to be on the look out for a witness statement…. Maybe…. ???  you won’t know unless you ask!

 

Oh and…. Don’t ever go to a funeral to be a dick.

It’s incredibly disrespectful and shows a great deal of your poor character. We all have enemies here, the funeral of them is not the place to deal with your unresolved bullshit. You got something nasty to say to them? Be a big boy and say it whilst they’re still alive!

Quite an admirable selection of appropriate suggestions following the etiquette that such a solemn situation deserves. If I may be so bold, despite the naivety of my youth, or perhaps because of it, a particular addition to your curated list comes to mind.

Deaths are inevitable, as we all know, and kin justifiably holds onto them. Yet there exist occasions, rare though they may be, where a measure of mutual respect develops between rivals battered by a constant competitive struggle for supremacy. For such rivals, reminiscing on the sport of it all, should not be an alien endeavour.

The public display of respect a humble victor can give to the kin of a gracious loser who doesn't succumb to petty vendettas, though difficult and painful, would not only enrich those involved but would serve as a benchmark for younger generations to follow and admire in the conflicts to come.

Furious agreed to the most about ebtering the funural, it is very good to be a good one and be a good one and write good word after their death, this thing with paying in cash to the dead one and then this goes through the game to the child or brother of this killed person, wonderful idea that Furious stand behind to 100%