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| Share Your Thoughts | Started by: LouisGara on Jul 08, '11 00:27 |
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The young associate sat quietly feeling a deep sense of pride as he watched the streets for signs of activity, he’d only just started out in the world of organised crime and his enthusiasm was unparalleled, at least that’s what he naively believed. He recognised he’d found himself with an opportunity and wished to display his ability to the organisation as quickly as possible to repay their faith, only it wasn’t that easy, without realising it out loud he posed the question; “how does one show their initiative?”.
In this world of rules and customs, how do we each define ourselves, what separates us and shows our individuality, our qualities. Can anything be achieved if you’re part of the faceless crowd that makes the daily commute here into the cities, half heartedly doing the required minimum to remain tolerated by those above until there is nobody else left to promote, are standards slipping to the point one can rise to the upper ranks without a credible voice, an original thought or opinion?
The consequences of not being definable/unrecognisable, of lacking a personality don’t seem to exist, in today’s era are the standards slipping or did they simply never exist? It seems quite frightening to me at least that the silent majority is prospering and displaying to others that it’s a viable means of success. Obviously this observation isn’t all inclusive, there are those amongst the crowd who’ve chosen to define themselves and are prospering quite well, perhaps even better than they should because they’re unique in the fact that they’re willing to speak up, regardless of the subject.
I want to succeed in this world, on my own merit, with the support and admiration of family, to do this I’ll have to avoid the trappings of safely remaining silent no matter the subject, the comfort zone must be avoided and in doing so I know I’ll learn a few lessons, perhaps lose face on occasion and take a few knocks but it’ll be worth it, at least I can be proud that I gave something a go, took a few chances in this life.
It’s a scary and foreboding world at times and there will always be critiques and detractors, not everyone’s going to appreciate what you may have to say but if you’re to put forth that little extra effort you might just surprise yourself and a few others as well, opportunities might arise and friendships may be born, you never know you just might even be remembered? |
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Sal steps to the front of the crowd after straightening out his suit. Swallows hard and takes a deap breath |
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| Reply by: SalvatoreMaranzano at Jul 08, '11 00:41 | |
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I am grateful for your response, it is certainly appreciated, I’m also quite surprised to be in such distinguished company so soon, though this is a perfect example of the message I’m attempting to convey as I would never have had the opportunity to make your acquaintance and exchange opinions if I hadn’t made the conscious decision to speak publicly.
It’s interesting to see that my words hold value with someone who’s already achieved what many consider to be one the highest honours than can be bestowed in this thing of ours, as my intention was more to hopefully enthuse those who may have similar aspirations but have yet to develop a presence and achieve such successes. I see so many faces but see so little public interaction that I’m intrigued as to what these individuals are doing, especially those unburdened with the day to day running of an organisation.
I wish to go back to the time you’ve acknowledged from your forefathers journals, to see the vibrancy and activity that entertained the masses and I too believe it’s achievable, only with a great deal of effort and belief consistently from each individual is this possible, we’re deluding ourselves that the possibility of change is achievable without this. As for the standard of discussion, I’m not overly concerned, the only way to learn and improve is by making the effort to begin with and it does become easier and more natural over time, nobody should be expecting miracles.
As a leader you’re seen as someone who ought to be setting examples but seeing as you can’t practically make it mandatory for participation, what do you suggest or what do you currently implement to encourage a more social interaction? Do you believe the demands and pressures are currently misdirected in the weight of importance of the likes of rank and financial achievement? |
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| Reply by: LouisGara at Jul 08, '11 01:51 | |
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Sal smiles and nods to Louis |
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| Reply by: SalvatoreMaranzano at Jul 08, '11 16:59 | |
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Mrs-D smiles at Salvatore and nods. |
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| Reply by: Mrs-Doubtfire at Jul 08, '11 17:47 | |
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Oh the irony. If you don't know what I mean, come find me and I'll tell you. But for now, it just struck me as humorous.
Anyway, I like this topic. I think it's good to discuss this from time to time. From my standpoint, it's an important topic, so I hope we can have a lengthy discussion about having a street presence.
Personally, I think people should have a street presence. My ancestors have always thought so, and have - from time to time - engaged in eras when street speaking has been very important.
And my question is - why can't we have a rule? There are rules legislating a lot of the things we do - from who we can mug to who we can kill. And once upon a time, there were rules about how we could "recruit." It just wouldn't fit? Why not? I'd love to hear reasons why such a rule wouldn't fit in today's society? Is it only because certain people just don't like to speak in the streets?
My question has always been - if you don't like interacting with others, then why are you in these cities? Ah, the answer - you DO like interacting. You interact in the coffee shops all the time, but can't come and interact here from time to time? Silly.
And if you don't like the streets - then interact in the bars. Or in the HQ. Just have some presence somewhere. That's what I say.
Couple other issues I'd like to address. I feel bad when people get hammered for coming out here and expressing an unpopular opinion. That's wrong. And I admit that I've engaged in some of that too over the years. But I've matured. Some. And I feel like we should be able to have meaningful discussions without making fun, embarassing, or the like. That being said - as somebody who comes to the streets - you need to develop a thick skin. Don't let the morons bother you and all will be fine.
I enjoyed the topic very much Louis. Thanks for taking the time to come on out here. |
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| Reply by: Andrew_Paxton at Jul 08, '11 21:10 | |
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Mr. Pickles quietly listens and then steps forward to share his own thoughts.
Some people don't want to stand out in a crowd. After all, being noticed can be a good thing or a bad thing. But, I think another thing that keeps people from coming out into the streets and waxing eloquent is the lack of response. People pass by, they may listen for a minute or two, but ofttimes it seems that people are talking to themselves. And, then you just look like a crazy person. |
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| Reply by: Mr_Pickles at Jul 10, '11 12:31 | |
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You said right.Sometimes people don't like what you said.
But sometimes they get happy and appreciate what you said. |
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| Reply by: Kingpin at Jul 10, '11 14:29 | |
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Thank you Mr Maranzano for kindly answering my question in regards to participation, you briefly touch upon reward as an encouragement for taking on a more active role within our society, once again there are many options for potential reward but what would you yourself as someone who can directly influence individuals consider for those attempting to create a consistent presence without then causing too much of an imbalance in regards to over indulgence or expectation? I have recently become aware that in your city there is something referred to as the ‘Chicago Street Team’ that does in fact encourage participation, can I ask how affective this is and does having something that incorporates the whole city benefit society rather than just the initiatives of individual families or would you say each family should still have its own way of creating a unique identity? Considering what I’ve just said, I’d open that question up to anyone interested or who has direct involvement or ideas to the questions posed, the more opinions the better.
Something else that was mentioned by Mr Maranzano and the equally honourable Mrs Doubtfire as well as coughs the 'Sexiest Man Alive' coughs Mr Paxton and should possibly be addressed separately in its own right is the negative criticism which has been sighted as a reason for people not willing to discuss a potential subject, it is something that has seemingly affected everyone whether directly or indirectly at some point so how is it to be addressed without then curtailing off those with a genuine piece of constructive criticism and possibly harming the beginnings of a competitive debate? How should those who’re negatively criticising without need be dealt with and should those who’re supposed to be leading be held accountable for the negative actions of their members?
Mrs Doubtfire you make the case that there are only so many times a person can take interest in the same subject and while I agree to a certain point, wouldn’t you say it’s also important for each generation to recognise and consider their values and opinions on the subject, to perhaps revaluate and make sure that those who haven’t had the opportunity previously learn and judge for themselves get to do so, when new bloodlines arrive in the future isn’t it important that they are inspired to speak to and learn from individuals with experience such as your good self? I don’t have a problem with the son repeating what the father has said if it’s to the benefit of others and if I disagree at least I have been given a platform to do so from.
Mr Paxton it’s my pleasure to be able to bring this topic to the forefront and hopefully put my own spin on things and to hear the opinions of others, it never hurts to have certain perspectives validated by others either as it gives me confidence that I’m at least on the right path. The fact that you’ve been able to answer and ask some questions of your own which I didn’t consider for myself is also important, while I don’t necessarily have the experience or insight to answer said questions I’m eager to see if they will be answered by someone who does, I can at least say that I myself wouldn’t be against some form of rule to be set, obviously the details would be for others to consider but I’d think as long as it was done in a way that encouraged and didn’t necessarily force someone’s hand in the short term that it couldn’t be anything but beneficial in the long term, I think a great many people would flourish from just the tiniest of prompting.
Finally to Mr Pickles, thank you for your insight, I think you’ve also made a valid point when it comes to a lack of response, it’s easy to become despondent and move away from future public discussions though I do believe if one is consistent and pursues a certain goal then eventually it’ll be recognised by the community vocally. You yourself have your own production and I assume it’s important that you receive feedback as it no doubt helps with future editions, I’m guilty myself of reading the tabloid news and failing to give it recognition, what I would say though is it does then become ingrained and it helps for me to understand and validate your opinion from what you’ve said in the past to strengthen your word in the future. As for your comment of being noticed, I believe there is no harm in being noticed as long as your motives and intentions are honourable, heightening your profile with public speaking should always have more positive ramifications than not. |
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| Reply by: LouisGara at Jul 10, '11 16:51 | |
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One contribution that I'd like to make here is the concept of people being afraid to speak in the streets that has been raised. People are afraid, almost always, for one of two reasons: 1) Fear of getting critiqued. 2) Fear of getting punished for saying something. |
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| Reply by: Crawford at Jul 12, '11 17:47 | |
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I hear some are only good at playing guitars. |
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| Reply by: GregUnderIgnition at Jul 13, '11 04:47 | |
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Me, being me, I'm going to suggest perhaps a group of people who are good at public speaking, linguists if you will, form a council to help others. They would be supreme linguists. We could have a veritable council of supreme linguists.
Mr. Pickles laughs to himself, wondering if anyone else gets the joke. |
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| Reply by: Mr_Pickles at Jul 13, '11 04:53 | |
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