are there any families i can join so i dont get killed after the 48 hrs?

We can talk in private mobmail :)

yes plenty go to "News and Info" then crews anyone on that page that says accepting new members.

Hello Kilbert,

Firstly, welcome. There are plenty of families that are accepting members. I would recommend writing a well thought out, respectful request to a leader, RHM or LHM. They will then consider your request and if you are the kind of person that they would like in their family, they will invite you.

Here is a good example of what not to do:

To: Rhuarc From: kilbert Subject: request to join

im looking to join the family,blah blah insert roleplaying bullshit here. im not going to act like a sniveling little coward, im working my way to the top and i dont care who i have to toss aside to get there.