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| What We Teach Our Kin | Started by: Cin on May 30, '16 01:43 |
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Have you found yourself ever sitting there and wondering what it is exactly we teach our next of kin through our journals that we leave for them? I know I have. I have many journals that are bound and left on a shelf that was custom made for them, and I am more than sure there are plenty of others who do as well.
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My concern isn't so much the behaviors I teach my kin, the mannerisms, approach and how to carry themselves. I consider that a development in how my family operate. I worry more about what those fresh faces off the boat learn from us. With innocent eyes, there are many aspects of this life that may be taken in as the status quo. Bloodlining, disrespect, salty bickering over the death of a patent. Monkey see, monkey do, but do we really want them to learn every grim and dirty detail of this life, or is it necessary to allow them to decide how to act on their own judgement? |
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| Reply by: ChristianGato at May 30, '16 08:31 | |
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In some regards I can see what you are saying. The thing is, I would rather teach my daughter not to throw a fit in the streets when my death transpires regardless of anything. So I do think we do need to teach our kin a great majority of things. It can be argued that if you cannot teach your own kin these things, then you cannot teach anyone else them since they will do what you do. |
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| Reply by: Cin at May 30, '16 14:01 | |
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This to me is important, why should people expect high positions just because their fathers or mothers did? Every one should earn their position based on self merit not performance of ancestors! |
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| Reply by: Tommo at May 30, '16 14:27 | |
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The wildly-bearded old country priest Nganga, the heretic, Methuselah of Midtown, opened his mouth to say a few words of his own, "Does cronyism deserve no thought in a business where we live and die by the strength of our alliances? In an ideal world, merit would presuppose any other stipulation but when our lives can end in an instant, can and should it override the bond of trust? Power is fleeting, and it is in the best interest of those who have it to consolidate it in whatever manner possible. Can those leaders then tame an overlooked core of high-ranking family members, disgruntled by a system that engenders stagnation and resentment? The ruler of a perfect meritocracy would have as many enemies as any other simply because there aren't enough important positions going around for the amount of people who want them. Power is what you make of it and there is no evil in maintaining it, especially in a business like ours in which our violent social contract is widely understood." |
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| Reply by: Nganga at May 30, '16 15:04 | |
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Progress and time - inextricably intertwined. Linked together. Maybe not so noticeable in a days span really. But the years fly by. They should be roaring. Like hurricanes. How could we have not marked the passing? It quietly crept by. A stealthy magpie pecking holes out of the trail leaving nothing to trace. I reckon that's why change seems to happen overnight but progress is a long wait on a train that don't never come. I agree with you in questioning what we choose to teach and pass down. Who knows what the future holds really. It wasn't that long ago that selling drugs was seen as lowly and unethical. Then the money started rolling in, right. Once taboo, now business as usual. What do we teach? The old ways that served us well or let new trails be blazed and the topography changed? Then it begs the question what is progress to you as an individual? Do you see it as change in toto, or the adaptation and evolution of what is familiar in a positive way such that it continues to serve as it was - only better? Being an illiterate and uneducated man I keep no journals myself, couldn't if I wanted to. I suppose the effort could be made to throw money at an amanuensis but I believe it would prove to be a burden. Somedays I can't even stand my own company let alone spend time with someone more familiar with a pencil than a Henry rifle. If further pressed to pass on anything to some Rockwellian scion I guess I would caution them to shoot straight, and to keep their powder dry. Not much more than that. If my advice though well-intentioned turned out to be a stumbling block it would be an error in judgement on my part. |
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| Reply by: PorterRockwell at Jun 03, '16 23:28 | |
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