Richard Paynes M.D. - Mafia Returns Agony Aunt Column
by EvilClown-
Devoted readers, over the last few weeks I have been receiving your various medical complaints and studying your various woes. My sack has been full to bursting and to relieve its burden, it has been decided that some of the more interesting aliments and life complications I receive would be shared with you all. This is done in the hope that if you are suffering from a similar experience or life style conundrum, a parallel can be with the examples below and therefore help you to move on with your life!
Every letter printed below is real and unchanged from the original context within which it was written. They have been represented for you, exactly as they have been received. I am not like some sort of faux agony aunt, who just makes up problems to gain undeserved plaudits!
If you are experiencing trouble in your life of crime, which is in no way similar to those below, then please do not hesitate to mail Mr Chuckle (editor) and I am sure he will pass them on for my scrutiny and subsequent response.
Well here goes:
To: Richard Paynes M.D.
From: MrVengeance-
Dear Dick,
RE: Bum Sex, Is it for me?
I have been with my partner, -Six-, for eleven months. At first she was really romantic; we would go out for a pizza and to the cinema (especially when it was a 2 for 1 offer) and she would pay for me and treat me like her little prince.
Recently she has been spending more and more time looking at strange magazines and quite frankly is getting some funny ideas. Now she wants to start doing me up the bum and I don't know what to do, I still love her but I am an arse virgin! What should I do?
'MrV-'
To: MrVengeance-
From: Richard Paynes M.D.
RE: Bum Sex, Is it for me?
Dear, dear 'MrV-', you poor thing!
Those magazines have a lot to answer for. Women around the world are looking at these magazines pretending to be interested in the celebrity gossip; however these so called celebrities are up to mischievous things and they can't help but get ideas! They are then expecting their partners to participate in these amateurish attempts at sexual perversion, which is the problem!
I have produced a helpful leaflet called "Bum sex - is it for me?", which should help you to decide whether you should go through with it.
It really boils down to a question of trust. Do you trust her to stop when you tell her to? Do you trust her to do it properly? Most importantly, do you trust her not to announce that she has deflowered your anus down at the local bingo hall? If you can answer yes to all of these questions and the idea appeals to you, then go ahead.
If on the other hand, you think that your girlfriend is an idiot who can't even change a toilet roll, you wouldn't trust her as far as you could throw her and as far as you can tell her mates all know already that she is trying to do you up the bum; then don't go there. Save yourself for someone better!
Let's face it, women are mostly idiots and will always be asking for things that you are unable to give them; your undying love, threesomes, dinner on the table every night, expecting you to find them attractive after either pints, the list goes on!
Just add it to the things she wants but is never going to get.
Much Love,
Dick.
To: Richard Paynes M.D.
From: Tarbh
Dear Dick,
RE: Showing My True Colours
Remember that fat ginger orphan at school? The one that was adopted by rampant homosexuals? Well, that's me. My whole school life was devoted to trying to remain anonymous. I was the one hiding in the toilets when the school captains were choosing who would compete at sports day, or the music teacher was looking for 'volunteers' for the school play - anything to stop the general populace from seeing what I look like! I am ashamed.
The abuse I got as a teenager was constant. All through my adult life I have suffered the same fate. I cannot go out in public without the local street bums mocking the way I look. The only saving grace I have is to wear this grey plastic bag over my head. I have 2 eye holes cut out of it to enable me to find my way to the pie shop without tripping over the obstacles complete strangers regularly put in my path. I feel as though I am ostracized for the way I look and so choose to wear the least conspicuous suit I can find in the hope of blending in to the background. However, inside, like my adoptive parents, I feel as though I would like to explode upon the world in a myriad of colour and happiness.
What can I do to raise my self esteem and express the real me to the world?
'T'
To: Tarbh
From: Richard Paynes M.D.
Dear T,
RE: Showing My True Colours
I feel your pain! Ugliness and low self esteem are a terrible cancer on your soul, but help is at hand!
The only way you will be able to express your self freely and gain in confidence is to express yourself without fear of ridicule. To remain dressed in shame must be hard, but with your life history in showing off your radiant self through gay colour, it must be even harder. You have come to the right place. I know there are many MANY tailors out there who will be glad to offer you their services for free, just for a mention in this esteemed publication. I've spoken to Chuckle and we'll help you out and this is a call to all you guys out there:
TARBH NEEDS A MAKE OVER!
For each and every offer a tailor makes to him you will be rewarded. The best examples will be displayed in the next issue and receive a prize from Chuckle. Consider this free advertising, Tarbh! Your days of slouching around in the twilight are over! Dick Payne has made this his personal crusade to help you out of your melancholy!
Much love and kisses,
Dick.
To: Richard Paynes M.D.
From: Crawford
Hello Richard,
RE: Drugs Are Bad
My Dad was a heavy drug user in my youth and has pretty much mashed up his brain. He has a poor memory and often rambles on about 'how he is the best one man duelling banjoist in the county'. He still smokes weed daily, and these so called drug experts who say that 'Cannabis is harmless' should come take a look at my old man - he is wasted!
Because of the state of him, and the fact that my hippy-esque burlesque momma, is equally as freaky and mostly stoned as a trout with a bicycle, I am firmly against drug use. I don't even take paracetamol. My sole vice is listening to Paul Simon over and over whilst strumming my beloved 2 string guitar every night.
My problem is that I would like to go into politics, and I want to campaign strongly against illegal drugs whilst bestowing upon the populace my love of twanging the banjo string. Will my parents count against me?
Love you,
No Name C.
To: Crawford
From: Richard Paynes M.D.
Dear No Name C,
RE: Drugs Are Bad
You are an amazing person. You have risen from the drug-infested hovel of your parents lives, into a fine drug-free young man. It is a miracle. Your parents should never be allowed to hold you back, because you are a wonderful human being!
Politics can be a dirty game and should you become a politician the gutter press may pick up on your background and seek to discredit you with it. Instead, use it to your advantage. Tell the world how you suffered in the crack-den of your youth, through the haze of psychedelic fumes, where your drug-abusing parents failed to nurture you.
Be a beacon of light in a dark, dark world, which is slipping ever further into a drug abusing and dismal place. Or alternatively, have your parents shot now so that they will be long gone before you become an MP. I know a man that knows a man who may be able to help you out. It is an extreme way of stamping out drug abuse, but we need extreme measures in the current climate.
Even the so called drug experts are going soft on the drug-abusers. Cannabis and ecstasy are safer than beer and fags? Yeah right! Have you ever seen a hippy driving safely? Didn't think so - it has never happened. But there are plenty of people smoking fags safely whilst driving aren't there? And what could be nicer than a quiet pint down the pub? Certainly not dropping a few tabs and dancing the night away in a night club in Ibiza, where it costs 26 quid for a plastic bottle full of local river water. THUD, THUD, THUD, THUD, goes the music and the beat of drug infused teenage hearts. I would much rather take my Labrador to the local and have a nice calm drink by the fire. Civilised and legal, that's the way I like to take drugs.
If you want I can arrange for your parents to go into rehab. However I know this may be a hard choice for you at the moment. Your mum would not be there to bring your TV dinners up to you in your bedroom and you may even be forced to go outside. This would be a 'kill or cure' for them and would completely exonerate you of any blame should they pop their clogs whilst going cold turkey.
<3
Love you,
Dick.
To: Richard Paynes M.D.
From: Klasky
Dear Dick,
RE: Domestic Violence.
My wife 'Alabama' has started beating me. She accuses me of having a gay relationship with my best friend 'Isacaron' and kicks and punches me relentlessly. I don't know where to turn for help. I know there are women's refuges, but are there men's refuges too?
It all started after she came home one night early from work and found me wearing one of her nighties. She hit the roof and punched me square in the face. I was too ashamed to tell anyone what really happened and instead pretended that I had been in a fight at the pub. Since then it has escalated and I dread her coming home and fear her the most when she has been drinking buckfast.
I don't understand why she thinks that abusing me like this is a good idea, or how she even thought of doing it in the first place!
Please, please help me,
'Classkey'
To: Klasky
From: Richard Paynes M.D.
Dearest Classkey,
RE: Domestic Violence.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, it must be terrible. Your wife seems to be taking her frustrations out on you in a physical and illegal way. Make no mistake; what she is doing is against the law, even in Scotland! She could face a prison sentence.
You have to get the police involved in a situation like this, or you must move to a place of safety before she harms you any more or even murders you! Do not stay there without help from the police! If you can't face going to the police, then get out immediately. Move in with 'Isacaron' and confide in him about what has happened. He'll understand.
There is no justification for what she is doing. I can't see where she would get an idea like this - who would tell her to beat her husband? It is absurd. Just because she thinks you're a nightie-wearing fudge-packer doesn't give her the right to beat the crap out of you.
All my love and best wishes,
Dick Payne. Xxx
To: Richard Payne M.D.
From: AlabamaWorley
Ock aye tho nooo Dick,
RE: Sexuality (unsure of someone else's)
I am worried that my husband is gay. He wears a peach coloured smock and he is always texting his friend 'Isacaron'. They went to see Brokeback Mountain together when the film came out and since then their relationship has changed, and so has ours.
He is distant from me and we hardly ever make love. He seems to spend more time texting his friend than he does talking to me. He hardly notices me now, even when I make big effort with nice clothes and new underwear.
When I came home early from work last week, I found him and 'Isacaron' stripped to their waists in the garden. They said that they were gardening - uphill gardening more like! My husband was using his friend as a wheelbarrow, or so it seemed to me. I don't want to know what the neighbours must think.
What should I do Dick? I'm at my wits end. Should I confront him and risk losing him, or should I wait and hope this phase will pass?
Thank you for your help,
A-bam.
To: AlabamaWorley
From: Richard Paynes M.D.
A-bam,
RE: Sexuality (unsure of someone else's)
You must talk to your husband to get the bottom of this, excuse the pun!
He may be unsure of his sexuality and experimenting with his friend, or it could be that your marriage is going through a difficult patch and his sexuality remains unchanged. Ask him directly and talk to him about your marriage problems, even suggest going for counselling as this might help!
If he is gay then you must consider your options - do you want to reamain married to a sausage jockey? Are you furious that he has duped you into marrying him, whilst all along he has been secretly eyeing up men's bottoms? Is he bum-chums with 'Isacaron'? How are you going to get even with him? Should you become a butch lesbian, beat him up, or beat him and 'Isacaron' up together?
Try to remain calm when those murderous thoughts enter your mind. Homophobia is not attractive, even when you re the injured party! Many gays have previously been married and many people have experienced the emotions that you are now going through.
If he isn't gay then you must talk through your marital problems and both work to resolve your difficulties. Get professional help, if at all possible.
Good luck A-Bam
Dick xxx. |