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Youre out. Started by: Squishy on Mar 22, '22 17:25

Up until yesterday I have tried my to best engage with users, positive or negative, to find ways to make this as fair for everyone.  With 13.5 hours left before the start of ReWar, I realized I had spent too much time engaging with users who are only there to constantly complain and move the goal posts, arguing in bad faith.  Over the past 7 days I have received a constant barrage of harassment.  I've reached the breaking point where for my own sanity and to keep the game going, I have to stop caring about the person on the other side of the keyboard.

Today is the last day I will be threatened physically.  Today is the last day I will let users insult my RL family.  Today is the last time I will allow users to contact me outside of the game to air their complaints.  Today is the last day that I will take shit from users because I want to play a game of risk during my lunch break during a 18 hour work day rather than taking their PM.  Today is the last day I will allow abusive users to continue to rule the roost, or even utilize the services here any more.

3 strikes you are out, it really is that simple.  I don't have it in me to maintain a constant 10 on 1 war of attrition 168 hours a week. 

I gave the ReWar an honest try in good faith, but have received nothing but resistance the entire way.  I don't have it in me to fight for fairness any more, so I gave up. 

I ask that you use common sense, tact, as well as reading the room before you pick up the torch and charge.

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Wait people threatened you!!!! That is unforgivable to threaten you and your family you should ban them from the website! Threats are against the law as well!
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I have a hard time believing that a community of people who have been here for over 8 years going through who everyone was that you DD'd on this one just randomly started threatening you in real life, is this the result of arguments occurring over a time period?

I am just curious because I am good friends with the people that you DD'd and have argued with almost every single one of them at least once or more in my life and they have never gone that route with me or with anyone else I have seen.

It seems like every time the world explodes specifically when groups are being targeted there ends up a thread about people threatening you, did you really tell Clank that he is a drug addict and should stick a needle in his arm and go do some crimes and not expect him to retort with something RL based? Just curious if this is true or not.

You are way too involved in this game as an Owner, and I get it you love this game its your world but you took a step back in the past for these kinds of reasons and it seems like maybe it is best to have somebody else start handling complaints and shit because it seems like things are going way too far when things occur in game that players disagree with and arguments are had.

Just my two cents anyways.

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Do you even Risk bro 

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Yes, I responded in kind with the same respect given when Clank started his shit.  I did not escalate it to physical threats or insulting his family, thats more his comfortzone.

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You are way too involved in this game as an Owner

100%

 

Like, what happened to this?

 

https://mafiareturns.com/comm/thread/1260433#19473628

 

It feels like every couple of months you put your foot down but then you don't actually stick to it. Then shit hits the fan and you're lowering yourself to Clank and then using it as a defense. Anything said not in line with how you feel you DD them. 

 

Why not actually utilize your admin team/help desk? Why are YOU getting all the messages? Why do SOME (not all like you make it sound) players have ways to contact you outside of MR/IRC? Why are you always here?

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Do not excuse threats of real life violence.
 

Bro what world do you live in? Please do me a favor and ban me this time you are the most delusional person I have ever met in my life. You run your mouth about peoples past real lives not their MR life and this is not the first time you have done this, numerous times you have tried to talk shit about peoples real life and when they push back you play victim and cry about how people are threatening you. 

You would not walk up to somebody IRL you are having an argument with who use to do drugs and tell them to stick a needle in their arm and go commit crimes and not have them punch you or worse. You need to learn where the real lines are, MR is a shit game that you have allowed to crumble and you continue to push people away from with bullshit like this, every time you don't get your way or people disagree with your decisions you throw a fit.

You need a reality check my man, and you keep acting like this and one day you won't have anything to come back to once everyone realizes that better games and better things to do with their time exists and they leave your ass in the dust.

The logs I read are some of the saddest shit I have ever heard an Admin say and the worst part is you defend it with "BUT MOM HE STARTED IT"

You can do better than this man, or maybe you cant, I don't know I lost faith in you as an Owner years ago and I guess nothing has changed, have fun being a delusional fucking moron with a shitty dying game.

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Instead of asking why it just randomly started, better to start asking why is it always the same people involved in every incident. No matter whether these incidents occurred over the period of time (which they did, so many times) or did they not, there is absolutely zero reason to threaten someone IRL over a game, end of story. I get that people invest money and time and everything else, but that is no reason to bash anyone or threaten anyone IRL, whoever did that is lucky that police is not involved.

The reason they did not threaten others are multiple: A) They don't care enough about XYZ, B) Person is not in position of power, CL, GFC and such, so no need to bother with Mades XYZ. C) You are friends with someone as they fit the same phycological profile, in example, KKK friends. They are all friends, they never threaten each other, yet the threaten others.

The only reason it is "specific group" bein targeted, it because it is always the same people involved, or most of the times. For sure they were runs where someone else was causing problems and every player that had great run has my respect, no matter who it may be. But I cannot respect those that were involved in cheating (example Casino incident) or those who threat, abuse, write crazy stuff in main etc. That is my two cents.

Owner being "too far involved" is the reason why the game is so great, to an extent it brings extra flavor. No one cried "involvement" when we got V-Days and Halloween events, or when we were able to INVEST into the game and get everything back, plus credits. No game ever did that, no owner ever did that.

Owner being "far too involved" was also why Casino fraud was caught and Izzy went trough records. 

Owner being "far too involved" also saved so many asses, from various scams and credit stealing and other frauds.

And this is just coming from me, I do not play this as much as others do, I am not involved as many others, and yet, I can count so many different ways when Owner saved the game or resolved an issue.

It was not the first rollback ever, it was not the first time something was being resolved, did he make some mistakes over the years, yes. We all did. Last thing that was being fixed was actually for the betterment of the game, otherwise, distance makes no sense, sell HQ, transfer to LA, shoot LA without distance trouble. Sell that HQ, go to NY and shoot someone else and that calculation error was noticed and fix was prepared, attempted, which many games would just ignore, mark it as "Feature" and voila, have fun buying HQs and flying around.

Izzy personally saved my ass at least 3 times when I screwed up a purchase and lost "bonus" because I bought 100$ instead of 4x25$, which other Owner would give all the rewards and say "You know what mate, keep those extra 10-20-30 creds you got as a bonus, fuck it" who would do that? No one. Reply would be "We are sorry for inconvenience caused, please be careful with next purchase"

And what you (not directly, just MR) calls a complaint is this "Hey you XYZ racist pig, why don't you go suck some XYZ" and of course, it was a formal complaint.

We had a chance to fix this bug, everyone was revived, Izzy went trough the numbers and worked on it, but of course, that is racism...

Also, even, EVEN if Izzy fired the first shot and said "Drugs, bla bla" that is no reason for death threats or physical harm

We are all adults, we are all responsible for our actions. Let us enjoy the game and build a community and have fun. Or don't, but no one is forcing anyone to stay. When I get bored or whatever, I will leave. When you don't agree with something, talk it our.

As soon as accusations and harsh words drop, it is over, no matter what the argument is, no matter if you are 100% right, once it becomes personal, all other arguments are null and void.

Stay safe, enjoy the game, share words of peace and love.

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Why not actually utilize your admin team/help desk? Why are YOU getting all the messages? Why do SOME (not all like you make it sound) players have ways to contact you outside of MR/IRC? Why are you always here?

So I should just fund this hobby for everyone, and not enjoy it.  This is not designed to be a profitable business, this is designed to stay as revenue neutral as possible so that anyone can play without spending money.  So you just want me to pay for it all, and do all the work, let people talk at me, but I can not respond. Care to switch roles?

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It really doesn't sound like you are enjoying it. 

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One time I mailed Toby about how prem sexually harassed me openly multiple times in Lounge, and I got no response. I didn't feel safe going to izzy about it because this is how he typically reacts to people when he isnt close to them, or you bring up one of his friends. Lets stop acting like izzy is the victim and not the person who is driving away his community by always making sure to insult them or belittle them in anyway. I'm sure you would have told me that is a police matter, as if you don't police your userbase. 

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It upsets me when when people insult squishy and Izzy too this level!
Don’t dm him abbot complaints like this first off he might just decided to one day shut down mr!
We’re all human sometimes we make mistakes. Coding and judge what’s the best course of action
Is not the easiest thing to do. He dosent berate us with forced subscriptions like other places.
Look at where we are. Now other games like this have already gone under. I Do
Not want to see the game become like others example minethings. I want us
To move forward izzy is not to involved with the game it’s the perfect amount.
Any one who says other wise is not a gamer.
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My husband is fighting for his life with Cancer, And you guys think MR is more important and are willing to waste your energy talking shit to the Admin. I hope Izzy bands all your ass that last out and get a grip on what is important people..... THIS IS STILL A GAME, WE ALL DIE. 

Izzy you have more control than Id have that's for sure, People that  threaten you  or your  family needs serious help and they are not going to find it here... 

Sorry Izzy you did the best you could

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This is a game that Izzy created. It sucks that he has to become a babysitter for adults. This is his work, and every single one of us want to enjoy our work. He shouldn't have to feel guilty from getting to know people and enjoying the job he does. The more he enjoys it the better he will make it for us.

He has always tried to do things fairly. He goes above and beyond to make this game a fun place, that can be played for free, or have extra perks for low money.  He works hard to give us all kinds of events that cheap or free to play and even ways to earn credits so if  you can't afford much you can still get to do things. 

He should not have to be assaulted verbally or abused. It should never get to real life threats. People can have honest calm discussions and make a much better point than being aggressive, and you will be more likely to be listened to. You can't expect Izzy to be attacked all day by multiple people and him not loose his temper as well. We are all human and there is only so much one person can take. Guys this is his passion, he has always tried to listen and make things better for us. However he is still just human and one person.  We all should be respectful of one another no matter if it is Izzy, helpdesk, any of the other people who work for the game, or even each other.   Lets try to keep this a fun place for everyone.

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For what’s it’s worth, I blindly agree with your judgement in the first instance and upon looking more in depth at things, my mind is not changed.
I have seen suggestions (suggested very badly) that you should lean more to admin to field some of the shit from whiney users who complain about a FREE game you spend your time and money on. Firstly these people need to grow up and accept they don’t run the game. They may be right to a degree but you should not have to tolerate it in the slightest.

I do have one criticism of you though I’m afraid, 3 strikes is still too much for you to tolerate. You should not accept two attempts to have a pop at you before acting and nor should you have to.
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Anyone who wasn’t in a conversation with Izzy doesn’t know what happened. End of story.

I was DD’d today. This was my first ever DD. I have never been banned. I have never been admin jailed. I have never been warned.

I have never threatened Izzy. I have never insulted Izzy or his family. I have never contacted Izzy outside the game, I don’t even have any way of doing that. I have never abused Izzy, his staff or any player in my time here.

But today I was DD’d. Why? Cause I sent him a 2 line message today via DM. My first DM with Izzy in months, our last conversation was months ago when he shared with everyone we could customise Lounge and showed him what I’d done with it. My DM today had no swear words and no insults. Izzy didn’t respond and I didn’t push it. It was simply me expressing my opinion that what happened last night was unfair and if Dom is dead they should all be dead and remain dead. And I was DD’d

THAT IS ALL I SAID. And here all you are judging everyone that was DD’d today without knowing what happened. Judging MY rl character when half of you don’t know me. Im disappointed. Im disappointed in Izzy for thinking it was Ok to tarnish us all with one brush. Im disappointed in those posting judgements of people they don’t know.

I don’t know if I’ll stick around or return. What I do know is I need time. Because how can I talk and raise concerns with an Admin or his staff when I’m DD’d with no discussion. How does that make this game feel a fair place to play?

I have nothing more to say and no reason to hide who I am or who I was.

~Dalora/Sineya
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Yes, I chose to end your 19 minute thug account  You chose an absolutely absurd time to express your displeasure that things were not done your way.  When I saw a brand new thug account PM me with and start off how everyone on the other side should be dead, and that its unfair that you died in the war because you were a friend of Doms.  If I misjudged your intention to carry on and keep moving the goal posts, then I am legit sorry.  When its 10 on 1, and you see 'Player 11 Has Joined the Fight', the timing can't get any worse.

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My account had 19 mins on it cause I went to bed after I created it. I messaged you at least 12 hours after the account was created. You DD’d me hours after I DM’d you. I messaged you at the time I did because atm I can’t access MR on my phone unless I’m connected to my WiFi, it’s been an ongoing problem with my provider rather that the game. All my rambling is to say I messaged you when I had a free min in my day while I could, I have no way of knowing if it’s an absurd time of you’re being harassed. Maybe if you had tried talking to me rather than taking your frustration with others out on anyone that wanted to talk we could have had a constructive conversation .

Do I think it was unfair I was shot just cause I was friends with someone? Yes BUT it happens. We die we rebuild. And I spoke with my CLs RH about it. It had nothing to do with you. To be fair I prob shouldn’t have even mentioned it in DM but typing walls of text on mobile is annoying so don’t always delete or rephrase things I think I should. And sometimes I ramble. But my dying that day wasn’t an accusation aimed at you but a “I died that day but couldn’t be revived so I don’t have a bone to pick in the rewar”. Again I had no way of knowing any other DMs or messages you were getting, so how am I supposed to pick a better timing? I can’t I can only message and leave it up to you to reply in kind.
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I have played this game since 2009. I, like Dalora, received my first ever DD today. I've also never been warned, never been admin jailed, never had to be spoken to by any staff members, etc.  

Not a single time have I ever threatened this game or anyone in it IRL. I have never brought up family, and I have never contacted anyone IRL regarding ANY matter in the game other than the standard "WAR" message to family members. I have never cheated, never accused admins, never exploited, I have never asked if my shot could hit, I have never asked for the identity of incogs, etc etc. 

I received my DD because I posted three words in the "Tired" announcement: This is fucked. And you know what? It is. It was F'd when revives came through last week, it was F'd when the game userbase pissed and moaned about the options to take, and it still is F'd after it was basically decided to say fuck it, everyone lives but Dom dies...with no notice. To be transparent, I do think Izzy was placed in a weird spot on how to handle this once the bug was discovered. But I'll also say that the situation has only deteriorated since then, and it's not just the hagglers to blame. I do not know who Dominic is, I do not care. As a relative outsider, the situation was fucked from the start and ended in probably the worst way possible. 

There are posts in here, including the original post, that attack me (as if I'm a "they") and try to make it seem like there is a certain group of people who are responsible for this admin rage. While there are names associated routinely with negativity on this site, I am not one of those people. I do not willingly play with any of those people. I belong to no cliques or groups of players. I am largely a solo-player, I have no alliance to any of you in-game or OOC. An opinion should not get a player DD'd. If it's the language I used that got me DD'd then admin jail me or send me a little naughty message. 

I never thought I'd be on the receiving end of one of these types of rants and DD's, nor did I ever think I'd have my real-life character attacked. It's very irresponsible to try to put all of us in the same category as someone threatening you, your family, your livelihood, etc. I don't give two shits about the character or 1300 units I lost, I'm disappointed in how it has all been handled by someone with a vested interest in the success of the game and community. Izzy, I've been around long enough to know that this is your passion and it should be expected that you pour your soul into this game. I don't think anyone could ever doubt that you are all-in, all the time. I do think though that sometimes you let your emotions get the better of you and situations like this (not Dominic, but the fallout) happen more and more frequently over the years. Additionally, I have a hard time fathoming how the same people, often the loudest ones in IRC, can continuously look the other way like this does not damage the game.

It's been awhile since I contributed to the game financially through credit purchases, so perhaps my potential departure doesn't mean shit to the bottom line. And because I am a loner, no player will bat an eye if I never return. The collateral damage you're putting out to stamp out Clank is wrong. I've been in all the discord channels offered, followed the game on twitter and facebook, I advertised on dollar bills around the world (circa 2010 advertising idea). I try to participate in all the big events and like to make people laugh when given the opportunity in WhatsApp or elsewhere. I feel like 13 years of being a loyal, civil player has been shit on because someone else put you in a bad mood. If all the needles you received throughout the week put you over the edge, perhaps you should stop and consider that those opinions might just be valid. Block out the obnoxious ones and listen to the others. Lastly, keep in mind that obnoxious opinions are on both sides of the aisle. There are people here that worship you and will support whatever idea you have, whether it's a great idea or a terrible idea. 

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This user base has got to do better! Like, y’all gotta’ act like y’all got some damn sense. This is a game, but Izzy is still a person. A human being. The level of entitlement some of y’all have, just because y’all might’ve warred well, or have “friends” in game. It’s weird asl hell to threaten a person livelihood just because, you didn’t get what you want. What kinda of toddler shit is that? It’s disgusting behavior. Everyone spends money into this game and many people have been around a long time. You are not the only one of your kind , lol. You are not special. The audacity. 
 

a DD is too kind, how about a year ban? Because fuck that kind of abuse for you AND your friends. I do not envy you Izzy. I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. My heart really does go out to you.

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